WORDS ARE WEAPONSSEGMENT 1:
I WENT TO PUBLIC FOOL, SO WHERE'S HOLLAND?
A BRIEF HISTORY OF MY BACKGROUND,
PLUS HOW LIBERAL, HUMANISTIC & IMMORAL HOLLAND REALLY IS
SEGMENT 2:
THE GAY BIZZOMB!
MY THOUGHTS ABOUT MY LIFE & STAYING IN THE KEKOA HOME.
SEGMENT 3:
CURTIS INTERVIEWS DANI ON HER THOUGHTS ABOUT
ME & HOPES FOR DEB, THE "NEUROTIC CHRISTIAN LESBIAN",
AS WELL AS A SINCERE INVITATION FOR HER
2 comments:
Maxime don't end up like Dani, in an abusive relationship with no way out because she has 3 children and no way to support herself. And because Divorce is not acceptable. That last line is soo over used to guilt women into staying. My experience has been that men in extreme right wing christianity don't respect their women, the women are to do as told, never question. Basically don't have a mind of your own, don't ever disagree, and but if the woman does, they end up abusing because they don't know how to handle a woman with an opinion. He will think he owns you, why wouldn't he, Dani basically arranged your marriage, he might as well have paid for you. I read your story Maxime and it is like soo many others, one of the reasons all of our parents didn't last was because they didn't know each other. They rushed into things. What you don't think that they had similar interests and beliefs? Of course they did, that's what attracted them to eachother initially. Just believing in God is not enough to make a life time commitment successful. I do hope that your marriage is a success, I don't wish divorce on anyone, especially if children are involved. But don't be afraid to get more than one opinon on God, Christ, love, hate, marriage, religion and everything in between. There is nothing wrong with knowing what you stand for and why. Make up your own mind, come to your own conclusions, trust me they will be more solid than anything you could ever be told.
And yes I posted this on Dani's too. Wanted to make sure you got it though. I think it is great that you have found Christ and have been given a new heart by our Lord, but I fear you have fallen into a severity unaware.
Putitalltogether4urself - Since you posted here as well, I thought I would also respond here.
I just wanted to point out the reality of real Christian marriages. While some men will resort to an abusive authority figure, that role of a husband is not a Biblical one. Real men who honor God, love and cherish their wives by putting them on a pedestal and being gentle and attentive to their needs. Real men do not abuse their authority as the head of their home, but lead their wives in a loving direction that earns her respect. Real men understand that they need their wives, and that a woman is not independent of man, nor is man independent of woman, but both are equal in the eyes of God. A real man loves his wife like Christ loved the church and a real husband would lay down his own life for his wife.
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.” – Ephesians 5:25-29
“Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.” – 1 Peter 3:7
So Maxime – Pay no attention to foolish feminist women like this. They will never fully understand the joy and honor we receive as wives because they would rather wallow in their own self-pity and misery by bringing others down. You have everything in the world to look forward to with your new marriage.
CONGRATULATIONS!
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